Watch Your Words | Ericaism
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Life has a way of teaching us lessons about ourselves and others, but ultimately, it gives us an opportunity to reflect God’s character. Recently, I had a moment of reflection during a trip to Tahquamenon Falls with my sisters. As we talked and shared opinions, I was reminded of something important: when we stand before God, He won’t ask for our opinions about others.
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Sometimes conversations can get a little heavy, especially when we’re quick to judge or critique. My sisters and I try to self-regulate during these moments. If the talk shifts into, “Why did they do that?” or “They should’ve known better,” I remind myself—and them—that the same venom we shoot at others can come back to us. I’ve experienced this firsthand, being in a position of influence where opinions about me are shared freely. But guess what? You don’t need a platform for people to talk about you. It happens to everyone.
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This is why it’s crucial to watch your words. They don’t change God’s opinion of others, but they do reflect your heart. When trending topics or family discussions come up, we may be tempted to critique or gossip. But here’s the key: end those conversations with prayer. If you’re not in a position to pray for someone or lift them up, then it’s best to keep quiet. My mom instilled this in us early on. She’d remind us, even while joking, “Watch your words. It could be you.”
Life is unpredictable. Today, you might be on the mountain, but tomorrow, you could find yourself in the valley. When you speak about others, especially with judgment or arrogance, remember: life has a way of humbling us all.
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I’ve learned that if you’re bold enough to say something behind someone’s back, you’d better be ready to say it to their face. If you can’t stand by your words, own up and apologize. Over the weekend, a blogger approached me at the airport, assuring me they’ve “never said anything bad” about my family. I laughed to myself, but it served as a reminder: words matter, and they come full circle.
We all have free speech, but God hears those words too. So let’s strive to keep our hearts and hands clean, speaking life and truth instead of tearing others down. Let your words reflect grace and love, not judgment. Watch your mouth—it’s a reflection of your heart.
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